Because….Prosperity Is Multidimensional…
Ok, I’m going to admit it right here and now…
I do indeed have a maid that comes in to clean our 37 foot motorhome while we travel full-time living our RV lifestyle!
Now before you go crazy and start sending me emails about not being able to afford this luxury yourself hear me out, because I’m sharing this to illustrate a point that I strongly feel will change the way you do business… yes, it’s that significant!
First of all, this “luxury” only costs me $25 a week - it’s not like she’s cleaning the Taj Mahal after all. I mean, how much mess can 4 people make in 37 feet? (Ok, Greg does his fair share - but still!)
Second, you probably think I’m heading down the path of pointing out the benefits of outsourcing and acknowledging the relative value of your time - but that’s overdone and a little obvious. Although I will stop here long enough to point out that ME cleaning vs. that same amount of time spent working on a project for our business brings me far more than the $25 I spend having someone else do it.
But that’s not the primary message here either…
Have you ever heard people joke about cleaning the house before the maid comes to clean? Or cleaning out the car before it goes to the detail shop? Have you ever mused over why human nature would elicit such behavior?
You see, I’ve noticed that when my own family knows that someone is regularly showing up to clean up after them (other than mom!) that they are 100 times more likely to clean up after themselves during the days in between. It’s like there is this air of an added level of responsibility that kicks in when you know that an objective third-party is looking over your shoulder. I even have to admit, that as much of a neat freak as I am, it gives me added incentive too.
Yes - we’re talking ACCOUNTABILITY here!
Now, on the one hand, there’s obvious merit in instilling the core values of taking personal responsibility for your own actions - and around our house, that is not a forgotten value by any stretch. But by the same token, the reality is when human nature kicks in, we all need a little help now and again.
And the help I am proposing here comes in the form of finding what is commonly referred to as an Accountability Partner.
If you haven’t heard about this before, or even if you have but haven’t made an attempt to align yourself with such a person, it’s time for you to seriously consider the benefits and explore the difference it will make in your own entrepreneurial endeavors.
Even if they don’t put a specific label on it, almost every successful business person has some form of an Accountability Partner in their life in one way or another. This might be a formal arrangement or a loose fitting one - either way, it’s often the secret weapon that propels many people to greatness.
When you seek out another individual to be your own Accountability Partner, what you are doing is finding someone that you respect who likewise shares an interest in your success and you in theirs. Mutually, you each bring objectivity to the table for your separate endeavors and it is not even a requirement that you even be in the same business or phase of life - just simply two people who serve to propel and inspire one another.
You may “check-in” with your Accountability Partner daily, weekly, or at whatever frequency suits both of your schedules. But regardless of how you coordinate it - this person becomes your sounding board and confidant. Someone with whom you outline your agenda for the coming week and then review your accomplishments, setbacks and/or challenges at week’s end. And in return - you do the same for them.
And herein lies the beauty in this concept…
All too often in the online marketing realm we often work in isolation - striving to keep our proverbial “house” clean and orderly even though no one ever comes to visit. But consider the benefit and value of Monday morning coming when you touch base with your Accountability Partner and get to report that you finished your weekend project without a hitch! Or that you added 200 new subscribers to your list as a result of last week’s efforts! Everyone loves an “attaboy” and that’s where this who concept was born!
See how knowing that the “maid” is arriving on Monday suddenly gives you the impetus to push through the tasks and keep your own house in order? And that even though you are diligent and fastidious by nature, it just simply “feels good” to look forward to sharing your triumphs with someone who is in your corner?
I said at the start that what I wanted to share could well change the way you do business and when you experience the presence of an Accountability Partner in your life and the resulting benefits, you may just find it an indispensable part of your business model — like many, many successful entrepreneurs have already learned!
And before you know it - you’ll get very accustomed to that “clean house,” it will inevitably produce!
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If you have a story to share of how an Accountability
Partner has shaped your business, please leave a comment
so that others may learn from you as well!
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Gary Simpson
October 6th, 2009 at 8:09 pm
Stephs,
I agree. That is why we so often see “gym buddies.” The BIGGEST asset a gym buddy can be is to GET us to the gym in the FIRST place, Like, most people can double-cross and sabotage their own efforts but few can let down a buddy. Same sort of thing IMO.
Great post BTW. I wrote about this same thing a few months ago.
Gary Simpson
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Paul Klein
October 8th, 2009 at 12:30 pm
Hi Stephanie,
Another spot-on post from one of my favorite mentors!
I agree totally, and we could go on and on with the examples of areas in our lives that Accountability Partners help. I find it strange that many people either don’t see the benefit or have not heard of using this in any area of their life.
Especially in working online, it becomes easy to feel isolated and that we handle everything on our own. We don’t need to!
Great comment from my friend Mr. Simpson above as well.
Cheers!
Paul Klein
Jabani Ntasiri
October 8th, 2009 at 1:17 pm
Dear Steph,
Thank you for sharing this idea with
your subscribers. One of the greatest
Bible teachers, late Derek Prince, had
similar group. The group’s initial reluctance
at accepting his revelation of a proposed
marriage to a divorcee made him not only
to be doubly sure the guidance he received
was true, but he would have been save from
error were he wrong in such a momentous decision.
Others members and he had time to rethink, pray,
and investigate. How I wish everyone belongs to
such a group. It’s a great help in avoiding
many mistakes in serious decisions.
Good piece. Increase its circulation.
Cheers,
Jabani Ntasiri.
Aidan Breslin
October 9th, 2009 at 10:35 am
Hi Stephanie
Great post and a great point. Made me look back at the stuff I had done in the past and realise that the times I had an Accountability Partner (sometimes a boss, sometimes a colleague, sometimes a business partner), I achieved more.
Then I get into IM and wonder why I’m going so slowly - because I’m working on my own and I haven’t made myself accountable to anyone. Duh!
Light bulb moment for me - thanks so much for sharing
All the best to you and your family with your travels
Regards
Aidan Breslin
http://www.PlanetSelf.net